•We all want to establish a heart-to-heart emotional connection with our children, but it is always contrary to our wishes.  

•We often do not distinguish between we and our children, seemingly intimate, in fact, is a kind of psychological kidnapping.

•Our negative emotions will hinder the communication with our children, destroy the harmony of parent-child relations. 

•We should distinguish whose emotions and needs as early as possible and learn to be responsible for our own emotions and needs.